Mand spontaneous communication [2] Refusing to speak, grabbing with hands, then losing temper, what do you think?

As mentioned last time, when practicing actively expressing needs with children, you must first arouse the child's motivation, and then remind him of the sentences he should use. Then a parent asked: I successfully aroused interest, but he refused to say anything. I had to grab it with my hands to prevent him from losing his temper again. What should I do? 😓

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Never give up, never give in, just start over!

It’s not easy to give up, it’s not easy to give in, just start over! 💫

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Example: During afternoon tea, the mother sees the child trying to reach for bread. The mother helps open the plastic bag, squeezes out a small piece of bread, places it in front of the child, waits for a moment, and then induces the child to say "bread". 🍞🥖🥐

However, the child did not respond and began to grab it with his hands without saying anything. I believe everyone knows that you must not give him bread to appease him. If you give in, you will teach your child in disguise that you can get what he wants by grabbing it with your hands when he loses his temper. But what about doing it first?

1️⃣ Remove the object: Remove the bread from your sight, such as folding your back 🤷🏻♀️

2️⃣ If necessary, gently put the child's hands back to their original position

3️⃣ Stop, wait, and calm down 😌

4️⃣ Bring the bread back out and give the child a reminder immediately! The mother says: "Bread", and then immediately gives the bread to the child 🎁

Once this is done, start reducing the verbal prompts further until the child can practice more spontaneously!

Method 1: After the mother finishes speaking, wait for the child to repeat it once, then give the bread first. 👩🏻💬👦🏻💬🍞

Method 2: After the mother finishes talking, she gives the bread first, then carries an extra piece of bread, and waits for a while to give the child time to think and induce him to spontaneously say the bread he wants. 👩🏻💬🍞, ⏳👦🏻💬🍞

Ultimate goal: To be able to proactively request something without being prompted.